My Yellow Post-It

When I started changing my gender presentation in public I sometimes used a yellow sticky where I wrote “Hi, I’m transgender.” I used it similar […]

Today is 4 Years Full Time!

Today, April 1st. 2020 I commemorate 4 years since I went full time with my current gender expression!

“I think I look like a girl.” How in the world I’m still wondering this after more than 3 and a half years of being […]

It was a Friday on 30th of October 2015, the day just before Halloween. That morning I was extremely nervous and even more excited. I […]

There are times when I feel like I’m in a witness protection programme or I’m a secret spy for another entity. This because to other […]

If you read through my blog you will find a few references where I say that I’ve thought about what it would be like to […]

In my previous post I talk about Hair – The Good, the Bad and the Ugly and explain a little about my obsession with hair. […]

I have a small confession to make: when I first came up to my family and friends I didn’t put too much thought into what […]

This may sound like a celebration of a recent breast augmentation (BA) surgery but the fact is that I had mine back in November of […]

Even with all the surgeries, wardrobe, makeup, manners, voice, etc. I will always be and feel trans. Even when no one has any idea and […]

How Did You (HDY) Start Presenting as a Girl in Public? With a little over 3 years since I started presenting as Franches as a […]

Every name has a story behind it. The story behind a given name is often told by the one who gave the name, but chosen […]

After posting the Practice Makes Perfect – Duh! article and getting a couple of comments I thought I’d add that all the things I’ve done to […]

You’ve heard the expression “practice makes perfect”, which as expected just means that the more you do something the better you get at it. I […]

Here I continue developing the complex answer to the basic question of “how did it all start?” To get the full benefit of this post […]

Back in late 2016, the company that I work for decided to close down the office in favour of teleworking. From a business and corporate […]

Today I saw a trans girl working at a department store and seeing her made an impression on me. So much that I felt strongly […]

After lining up consultations with a number of surgeons I was eager and nervous to meeting them. I wanted to know what procedures would benefit […]

When I made the decision to seek medical advice to start Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) I sort of knew that my decision included having some […]

I get this question from time to time and often I have a hard time answering. My issue is that language doesn’t allow me the latitude […]

In late 2011 I had the most incredible experiences. I went from 0 to 100 in no time, and the learning was absolutely incredible. Everything […]

Probably not what you’d expect, but for now (and I’ve learnt to qualify almost everything with “for now” because who knows what I’ll decide to do […]