When do you Stop Being Trans?

Chatting with a friend a while ago, she asked me ‘when do you stop being trans?’ At first I had no hesitation and my instant […]

The First Time I Shaved my Legs

The first time I shaved my legs… Wow! Such a small little thing that had such a life changing impact on me! But as incredible […]

“I think I look like a girl.” How in the world I’m still wondering this after more than 3 and a half years of being […]

There are times when I feel like I’m in a witness protection programme or I’m a secret spy for another entity. This because to other […]

What it Means to be Trans? Oh gee, this questions has been in my head for the past few weeks, and the other night I […]

If you read through my blog you will find a few references where I say that I’ve thought about what it would be like to […]

Almost three and a half years after going full time and the impact of that decision is still sinking in! When people that don’t know […]

This may sound like a celebration of a recent breast augmentation (BA) surgery but the fact is that I had mine back in November of […]

Even with all the surgeries, wardrobe, makeup, manners, voice, etc. I will always be and feel trans. Even when no one has any idea and […]

Una amiga que estimo mucho y le tengo un enorme respeto me pidió que le contestara un par de preguntas en preparación a una plática […]

Really, I don’t need the wardrobe I wear now, I didn’t need to have FFS, I didn’t need a BA… I don’t even need to […]

Not long ago, a good friend of mine who’s still mostly in the closet, asked me if I was still developing breast tissue. I couldn’t […]

Here I continue developing the complex answer to the basic question of “how did it all start?” To get the full benefit of this post […]

I get this question from time to time and often I have a hard time answering. My issue is that language doesn’t allow me the latitude […]

Probably not what you’d expect, but for now (and I’ve learnt to qualify almost everything with “for now” because who knows what I’ll decide to do […]