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A Love Letter to My Body

This is a love letter to my body. I’m in it as I navigate through this life and I’ve been wanting to say a few […]

Posted on 2021.10.112025.02.09 by Franches
Posted in Experiences, Joys, Joys & Regrets, ThoughtsTagged #alive, #beyondgender, #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #gender, #growth, #me, #mybody, #myself, #personal, #veryprivate3 Comments

The Story of the Magic Tutu – Defeat Self-Imposed Limitations

This is a story of accomplishments and stop holding back. On the surface the accomplishments are visible through an actual ballet performance. Though the story […]

Posted on 2021.01.042024.03.03 by Franches
Posted in Experiences, First TimesTagged #apprehension, #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #doubts, #experience, #firsttime, #growth, #positiveexperiences

I Am Now My True Self

I’ve had many people tell me that they’re so happy for me, even congratulate me, because ‘I am now my true self’. Thanks to all […]

Posted on 2020.05.272024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in ThoughtsTagged #alive, #beyourself, #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #gender, #me, #myself, #personal, #trans2 Comments

I Think I Look Like a Girl

“I think I look like a girl.” How in the world I’m still wondering this after more than 3 and a half years of being […]

Posted on 2019.11.212024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in Contradictions, Experiences, Joys, Joys & Regrets, ThoughtsTagged #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #doubts, #personal, #presentation, #thoughts, #trans

I’m Sixteen Again

The other day I saw an ad for a Mercedes-Benz CLA Shooting Break titled “Play by your rules teaser”, where the narrator hypothesises: Imagine you […]

Posted on 2019.11.102024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in ThoughtsTagged #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #childhood, #decision, #myself, #thoughts

Anterior Pelvic Rotation

My term of the year for 2019 is… (drum roll, please…) “Anterior Pelvic Rotation”!

Posted on 2019.11.092024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in Experiences, MicroPost, Quick ThoughtsTagged #awareness, #behaviour, #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #micropost, #obssesion, #practice6 Comments

Halloween 2015 at Work

It was a Friday on 30th of October 2015, the day just before Halloween. That morning I was extremely nervous and even more excited. I […]

Posted on 2019.10.312024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in Commemorations, Experiences, First TimesTagged #alive, #apprehension, #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #decision, #earlydays, #experience, #firsttime, #memories, #positiveexperiences, #presentation2 Comments

Starting Dance: One of the Hardest Things Ever

This “little” anecdote starts sometime in 2016 when I used to ride transit to work. Back then, en route to and from work on the […]

Posted on 2019.09.042024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in Decisions, Experiences, First TimesTagged #alive, #apprehension, #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #decision, #doubts, #experience, #firsttime, #positiveexperiences3 Comments

I Got Boobs!

This may sound like a celebration of a recent breast augmentation (BA) surgery but the fact is that I had mine back in November of […]

Posted on 2019.04.072024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in BA, Contradictions, Joys, Joys & Regrets, Surgery, ThoughtsTagged #awareness, #breastaugmentation, #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #personal, #presentation, #surgery, #thoughts, #trans, #transition, #understanding

Eternity Followed by 2 Demi Pliés

Just before my last Wednesday’s ballet class started I lived through another out of body experience.

Posted on 2019.02.152024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in Experiences, JoysTagged #alive, #awareness, #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #experience, #intimate, #positiveexperiences4 Comments

I Don’t Need Any of This Shit

Really, I don’t need the wardrobe I wear now, I didn’t need to have FFS, I didn’t need a BA… I don’t even need to […]

Posted on 2018.12.302024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in Contradictions, Experiences, Joys, Joys & Regrets, MicroPost, Opinion, ThoughtsTagged #awareness, #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #decision, #experience, #Franchesism, #gender, #myself, #personal, #quickthought, #thoughts, #trans, #understanding2 Comments

The Normality of if All

Not long ago, a good friend of mine who’s still mostly in the closet, asked me if I was still developing breast tissue. I couldn’t […]

Posted on 2018.12.172024.04.29 by Franches
Posted in Contradictions, Experiences, ThoughtsTagged #cantbelieveimdoingthis, #earlydays, #experience, #firsttime, #growth, #itsnormal, #me, #practice, #progress, #remembering, #socialconstruct, #thoughts, #trans1 Comment

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